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Feedback loops 101: Anchors, Waves, & Islands
Lisa A. Rainwater, PhD, MA (couns) Lisa A. Rainwater, PhD, MA (couns)

Feedback loops 101: Anchors, Waves, & Islands

In this blog post, I talk about attachment styles, and how we can learn about whether we are an Island, Anchor, or Waves. Understanding our attachment style enables us to related better in our relationships with partners, children, and co-workers.

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Why Buffalo?
Grief, Pet Loss, Cancer, Divorce Lisa A. Rainwater, PhD, MA (couns) Grief, Pet Loss, Cancer, Divorce Lisa A. Rainwater, PhD, MA (couns)

Why Buffalo?

As a grief counselor, I walk with my clients through the storm, encouraging them to be the buffalo. We need to run into the grief storm, like buffalo run into the ice storm because trying to escape it is futile and depletes our resources.

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